We are not trained to ask for what we want. Most western cultures have this crazy double standard for achievement. If you are wanting what is socially normal or acceptable, then cool. Ask away.
But asking for that raise or a better home for your family, that breaks social norms. Then you’re getting “to big for your britches”. Its this crazy double standard that we don’t have to opt into anymore.
In this episode I go over how to identify what you want. I also go through the scenarios of building up to the ask. And, why having confidence that’s facts based and sold is important.
Asking for what you want is not selfish or greedy. Instead its a way to make sure that you and your family are provided for. While also giving you the resources to provide for others too.
