Have you ever wondered why there are just some people that seem to get it “all” done?  That they have everything always flowing for them and they never miss a beat?  

Most of you have a skill that has you already 80% of the way there? Why not get paid for it? This is where most of you would answer me that earning money cant be easy or you don’t deserve it.  But I would challenge you to see if that’s ultimately true?  Does making money have to be hard?

Have you ever had a few weeks or even a month when everything is going AMAZING? Your job is on point, your bills are right where you expect them to be. You have more than enough time for friends and family. Most of all you have enough time for yourself too.

I’m here you giving you permission to stop doing unnecessary tasks that take up your valuable time. It’s ok to stop rewriting that same follow-up email that you send out a million times a month, from scratch.

Do you ever wonder how some people just don’t seem to have a ton of stuff on their plate? Wouldn’t it be nice to stop filling our brains and schedules that we have to pay for over and over again?

I wasn’t ready to deal with the grief I had gone through. But also it felt dishonest to not record an episode about this. There were so many times that I wanted to just “skip” this episode and not admit what had happened. But that would have been hiding and I don’t hide.

I was chatting with one of my girlfriends a few weeks ago. But all I could do was complain that I never seemed to get anything off my plate. I was so frustrated, because even though I am a smart accomplished woman. I was treading water with about 10 tasks that were literally taking months too long to get done.

Have you ever been asked what your non-negotiables were? I have. The worst part was that I couldn’t give you any really good ones. What was even worse than not having an answer was that I kept confusing my boundaries with my non-negotiables.